"SHE's just not that into you..."

Post by:Lady A

...is that what guys/gals will be telling my suitors??

i mean how do i nicely, without hurting feelings, say :i am not that into you:

i am in the same boat with Sir F. i want to quit TONY, i am STILL getting emails,STILL!! 

(ok yeah you can so be like "shut up Lady A" right now)

truth is, i am not used to this attention. and i must be sending off a "single" vibe because PastaBoy came up to me on the train.

its the emails. its the corresponding. its the length of the said emails. its the amount of time in asking and answering questions.

i have a "top 3" which is now down to just one. mainly because i am lazy, and being a  procrastinator 

(i told you i am a lazy dater- i have done my nails TWICE in the span of a week-never do i do that!)

this "1" from TONY seems great on emails. lets hope there is a spark. but i learned last week that without spark.....i am not going to even consider a 2nd date. i don't want to waste my (or their time)

also. i kinda like someone *shhh its a secret.

and while timing has not been our friend. i am having a blast when i do see him. i mean, i light up like 4th of july fireworks when he cracks a joke.

yes, we have chemistry AND he makes me laugh=dead sexiness and then there is the 

"oh yeah, i like you"

but in the past i would have wall flowered,stuck around waiting for the time to be perfect. that got me no where, and those guys were all over the place, so this time, i will keep a lil white picket fence up with a lock, but its not a master lock and he is tall so he could just jump the fence. 

metaphor gone too long....

....moving on.

i am meeting PastaBoy for lunch manana: he choose a location which i have been wanting to try (which a co-worker of mine said was fabulous) i may even text them and have them "walk by' to check him out if they are able to.

i have drinks with my #1TONY pick before he leaves for LA (date tbd, but i assume next week)

*le sigh

my brain is full. i think i will start sharing my horrible limited dating experiences so you kids can have a chuckle. anyone ever met someone's 'rents on the first date? yeah well i have.

for now:

i wish Lady N some luck in sparks:

i wish Lady M some great vibes from CLpunkDude

i wish Sir F suerte with TheaterChica, and a hug. *i am overwhelmed as well. its ok. your still mad hotCUTEawesomeADORABLEtalentedSPECIALfunnyCARING and someone will fall into your life when needed!!!

(did i gas up your head enough???!!)

besos babies!!!