"I am so not SOHO House"

Post By:Lady A

sign from the toliet @ SoHo House

Time:7pm

Location: The SoHo House

Date: MovieProducerDude

I get to what i *think my be the location, and the only inkling i have of it being there is the snotty look i get from a girl sitting behind a desk that i spot while i peer in.

just as i was about to text him, i see a tall guy with glasses walking towards me.

thinking back on it, i think he gestured two tumbs up. hmmm

anyways, we go in, and while we ride the elevator up, he admits he had not been here in a few months, and he thought it would be a good people watching. that put me at ease-"ok he is not one of THEM"

he choose a spot where i could take in the full experince. a waitress promplty came over, he gestured for me to order "Holy Water please" (ok i said vodka-soda-lime) and he ordered a GingerAle.

he let me drink my drink ALONE! i mean we agreed to drinks. and he gets a ginger ale. *ugh.

he jumped into asking me why i was in the issue. how were my other responses. what sort of pictures i got (seriously dude-can we talk about ummm food or something) i answered politely  and short, just wanting to get off the topic. 

the rest of the conversation went well. a few silences, which i hate, but by the third silence i had my own inner monolouge on full blast.

"could i see myself with him? would he like simple food? would i resent him
later? i wish i was in my lounge pants. i wonder if my friends would like him. could i pitch him a movie idea? gees i wish i had a burger-med-rare. i wish i was still at "brunch" with the kiddos, next time i should do a theme-maybe all sweets. damn i wasted this dress on the first date, is it too short?i think he may be bored"

when we left (2.5hours later) we walked to the E, he-twds bklyn me-twds Queens. we had that whole could see each other across the platform bit. i opted to put on my ipod,reach for my book and thank goodness my train was there asap.my book got good, so i lost myself in it.

well-he was not that bored- we have been in contact this week. i just felt no spark. but he is funny.

the money part is an issue. i mean i am ramen he is high end sushi. can a relationship work with such extremes? would our friends mix well? champagne cocktails vs. 40oz.?

i agreed to see him one more time. i am hoping we can do something very low key-cheap so i can be relaxed.

so can i go and pitch him ideas? no? yes? i still have no clue what he does exactly....what is a producer??!! also he keeps mentioning my garters. i really wish he didnt. i mean-he didnt even try to kiss me!!

ugh. i give up on TONY.